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What Are Your Strengths? Why the Question Matters More Than You Think

Written by Holger Bollmann | 18 Nov 2025

It's a question that sounds simple, but unlocking it can change how people see themselves, lead others, and grow at work.

Most people have been asked this at some point, but very few know how to answer it well.

Whether in an interview, appraisal, or a team development session, this one question comes up time and time again:
“What are your strengths?”

It seems like a simple ask. But when people freeze, mumble something vague like “I’m a people person”, or shift uncomfortably, it’s not because they lack strengths.
It’s because we’re rarely taught how to talk about what we do best, especially in public sector workplaces, where modesty often takes precedence over self-expression.

Why Most Answers Stay Surface-Level

People often struggle with this question because:

  • We’ve been taught to avoid sounding boastful
  • Strengths are confused with technical skills
  • Reflection gets pushed aside in fast-paced roles
  • We don’t have a shared language to describe them

Saying “I’m good with people” or “I get things done” doesn’t really capture your energy, your style, or the ways you make a difference.
True strengths go deeper. They reflect how you think, relate, respond, and thrive even in challenging situations.

See also: What Is a Strengths-Based Approach

How to Spot Your Strengths (and Others’)

A strength is more than a capability. It’s something that gives you energy as you do it, and makes you feel like you’re doing your best work, not just ticking boxes.

1. Track Your Energy

Think about:

  • What tasks feel easy and rewarding?
  • When do you feel most in flow?
  • What kind of feedback resonates with you?

These are often the moments where your strengths are in full use.

2. Reflect on Proud Moments

Recall:

  • A recent challenge where you thrived
  • A compliment that really landed with you
  • A success you enjoyed more than expected

Ask yourself what strengths helped you get there.

3. Reframe the Struggles

Sometimes our strengths show up as frustrations when they’re underused or misdirected.
For example, someone strong in Strategic Thinking might feel drained when bogged down in short-term admin. Recognising this helps shift your focus and create more energising work.

Real-World Strengths in Action

In a university setting:
A team leader noticed how her strength in Empathy allowed her to pick up on team fatigue early - before burnout set in. By naming it, she felt more confident in advocating for reflection time and support.

In NHS services:
A clinician who ranked high in Belief found clarity in why he’d stayed in the profession so long. It also helped him reframe new service changes within that deeper purpose.

In local government:
A digital lead rediscovered their strength in Input during a team workshop, recognising their natural drive to gather information, ask better questions, and connect insights across systems. By owning this strength, they shifted from simply solving problems to becoming a strategic source of insight for their team, energising not just themselves, but others too.

Why This Question Really Matters

When leaders and teams start to explore strengths together:

  • People feel more recognised and valued
  • Teams communicate with greater trust and clarity
  • Energy goes up, especially when tasks align with what energises people
  • Conversations become more meaningful

This doesn’t just improve wellbeing; it supports performance, collaboration and resilience too.

Read: How to Help Your Team Stay Positive Through Change

How Strengthify Can Help You Find the Answer

Our sessions aren’t about buzzwords or box-ticking. They’re about real discovery, helping managers, leaders, and teams unlock what drives them and how to use it more effectively at work.

Contact us to bring strengths discovery into your team or department.